Seven Techniques for Toddler Discipline
Providing consistent, positive discipline for toddlers can be very challenging. Here are seven techniques to use during those sometimes difficult years. When these techniques are used consistently these tips can provide parents with valuable discipline tools.
Time out is the most well known form of discipline. A good guide line to use is one minute per year of age. When putting a toddler in the time out area parents may need to stand with or stand over the child until their time is up. When it is over, discuss with the child in simple words what they did wrong.
Use redirection to distract a toddler from undesired behavior or dangerous situations. Direct the toddler to something safer or desired.
Sometimes ignoring the behavior is the best option. This is especially effective for tantrums. Ignoring the tantrum can make a dramatic, emotional episode more calm for discussion. Don’t indulge the child by giving them attention during a tantrum.
Model cooperative and positive behavior with other children and family members in your home. Use words like “please” and “thank you” rather than demand a task to completed.
Maintain structure in the toddler’s environment. Many problems can be avoided and positive behavior encouraged by simply making the child’s environment less likely to have less “no” situations.
Set boundary's. Boundary's provide security, so make some “no option rules”. For example, a rule may be that parent and child always hold hands in the parking lot or crossing the street.
Finally use lots of praise. Catch your child doing something good and reward them!
Sun, Jun 26, 2011
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